Our Family
Where they were

The places

A hill village with no street names. A town so windy it can knock a lorry over. A plain where you can watch a storm coming for an hour before it arrives.

Gračišče · Gallignana
Istria, Croatia

A stone village on top of a hill, small enough that nobody needed street names. The priest wrote families down by their house number instead — ours lived at house 5, and then at house 19.

The whole village is about 400 people even now.
Senj
the Croatian coast

A town squeezed between the sea and a bare grey mountain wall, at the exact point where a road crosses the mountains. That road is the only reason Senj existed.

Senj gets a wind called the bura, which comes down off the mountain so hard it can turn a lorry over. It is one of the windiest towns in Europe.
Smokvica Krmpotska
the Senj mountains

A village up in the hills behind Senj, built on purpose in the 1600s for families fleeing an invading army. Toma was born in house number 114.

Nearby is Krivi Put, which means “crooked road” — and Tonka was born in house 136 on it.
Crikvenica
the Kvarner coast, Croatia

A seaside town of pebble beaches an hour down the coast from Senj. Your great-grandpa Ivan was born here in 1925, his first daughter was born here in 1948, and Hedviga sang in the grandest building in the town — the Hotel Therapia.

The Therapia opened in 1895 and had an X-ray machine about ten years after anybody had worked out how to take an X-ray. People came here to be made better as much as to swim.
Arienzo
near Naples, Italy

A green farming valley under the hills, about twenty miles from Naples and its volcano. Nine documented generations of Falcos were born, married and buried here.

The bishop who lived in the palace next to their church from 1762 to 1775 is now a saint.
Rosario
on the Paraná, Argentina

A river city on one of the biggest rivers on Earth — the Paraná is over 4,800 km long, and ships come up it from the sea even though it is hundreds of kilometres inland.

Bob Lerena was born here in 1882 and ended up training racehorses on a different continent.
The Karoo
South Africa

A vast, dry, almost empty plain. Hot in the day, cold at night, and so flat and open that you can see a storm coming from an hour away. Farms out here are enormous because the land feeds so little.

George Kolbe named his farm out here “Wurtemburg”, after the part of Germany his own father came from.
Piedimonte Etneo
Catania, Sicily

A village on the lower slopes of Mount Etna — the name means, literally, “the foot of Etna”. The volcano above it is still active, and still smoking.

The soil around a volcano is famously good for growing things, which is why people live somewhere so obviously dangerous.
Scilla
Reggio Calabria

A fishing town on the strait between Sicily and the mainland, with a castle on a rock above the water. Two of the ten families come from here — the Arenas and the Polistenas.

The swordfish boats here have prows sticking out longer than the boat itself, so the man with the harpoon can stand right out over the water.
Briatico
Vibo Valentia, Calabria

A small white town above a beach on the Calabrian coast. Nine straight generations of one family were born, married and buried here without leaving.

This is the deepest line in the whole website — back to 1697 — and it is deep because Calabrian records happen to have survived better than Sicilian ones.
Chatham & Parramatta
England, then Australia

Chatham was a great naval dockyard on the Medway where ships were built and soldiers embarked. Parramatta was a convict settlement upriver from Sydney. One family had children in both, two years apart.

That two-year gap is how we know exactly when they crossed the world.
Soho & Bond Street
London, England

George Kolbe was born in Soho and baptised at St Anne’s. His father made clothes on Conduit Street, just off Bond Street — then, as now, one of the smartest shopping streets in London.

For years the family thought the shop was in a different street entirely. Four documents say otherwise.
You could go and stand there

Things that are still there

This is not all in the past. Some of it you could get on a plane and put your hand on.

The gravestone at Burgersdorp

George Kolbe and Margaret Downing are under a cut-stone monument inside an iron railing, and it is still standing. It says he was born in London on 7 December 1802 — and two hundred years later somebody found the London church book, which says exactly the same day.

The wall grave at Senj

Ljubomir and Milka are in the cemetery wall, with two of their sons. For a while nobody could read the stone, until a photograph turned up that had been taken in soft light instead of hard sun.

The books at Pazin

The parish registers of Gračišče are in the State Archive at Pazin, and you can ask for them. The page that proves four generations of this family is a ruled table somebody filled in with a dip pen.

Sant’Andrea at Arienzo

The church where a priest wrote Pasquale Falco into a book in October 1767 is still there, and still a church.

St Anne’s, Soho

The London church that recorded George Kolbe’s birth in 1803. It was bombed in the war and partly rebuilt, but the tower still stands and the registers survived.

Four graves in a row at Nudgee

RFM and MJM’s four Italian great-grandparents lie in consecutive plots at Nudgee in Brisbane — V-1026, V-1027, V-1028, V-1029 — buried in the order they died, with nineteen years between the first and the last. Born in three towns that had never heard of each other, and they ended up side by side.

The hotel Hedviga sang in

It is still standing, and it is still a hotel. It opened in 1895 as the Hotel Archduke Joseph, took the name Therapia in 1899 when a water-cure clinic moved in downstairs, and it is now protected as a historic monument. It stopped being called the Therapia in 2013, when an Austrian hotel company bought it and renamed it the Kvarner Palace — so the name she sang under is gone, and the room is not. You could walk into it.

Toowong and Dutton Park

Two Brisbane cemeteries hold four generations of D’Arcys, including the surveyor who helped chart the ground Melbourne stands on.