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How long ago

When

A number like 1750 does not mean much on its own. So here are all ten families on one line, where you can see which of them reach back furthest — and then the biggest moments in all of them, in the order they really happened.

How far back we can prove

The solid bar starts at the oldest person we have a real date for. The faded part is older still — but it is reached through the mothers instead of the fathers, or it has not been properly checked yet.

1700 1750 1800 1850 1900 1950 2000 Prostamo 1697 Briatico Brisbane from Franco Antonino D’Arcy 1751 Yorkshire Brisbane from Robert Falco 1767 Arienzo Brisbane from Pasquale 1750 Defranceski 1787 Gračišće Brisbane from Giov. Battista 1683 Booyzen 1788 the Cape Brisbane from Petrus Jacobus 1750 Blažević 1838 Smokvica Brisbane from Toma Arena 1870 Scilla Brisbane from Giovanni Mazza 1879 Piedimonte Brisbane from Salvatore Lerena 1882 Rosario Brisbane from Pablo Armando Polistena 1883 Scilla Brisbane from Giovanni Faded = older still, but through the mothers, or written on a family chart rather than in a register.

Ten families, and 186 years between the oldest start and the youngest. The Prostamo bar reaches furthest of all — nine generations in one small Calabrian town — and it arrives through a great-grandmother, not through anybody’s surname. The short bars mark young research, not young families.

In order

32 moments

1605–1647
A village is built on purpose

Smokvica Krmpotska and Krivi Put were founded, not grown: families fleeing the Ottoman armies were settled in the Senj mountains to hold the frontier. Two of Hedviga's four grandparent lines come out of those villages.

1697
The oldest person anybody can name

Franco Antonino Prostamo, born at Briatico on the Calabrian coast. Nine generations of Prostamos follow him in the same small town, and the line reaches ADD and MCD’s cousins through a great-grandmother. He is the oldest person in this entire website.

about 1717
And the oldest on the other side

Nicolaus Gerkacs, on the Croatian coast. But his name comes off a family tree, not out of a church book. The oldest ancestor with an actual record behind him is Joannis Antić, born about 1739 — and he is on this side too.

about 1750
Giovanni is born — probably

At Gologorica in Istria. He is the top of the Defranceski ladder, but this date comes off the family's own hand-drawn chart, not out of a register. What is certain is that he existed: later clerks kept calling his son “son of the late Giovanni”.

1751
Robert D’Arcy is born in Yorkshire

He grew up to command the Royal Engineers at Chatham. Above him the family papers start arguing with themselves.

24 Oct 1767
A priest picks up a pen at Arienzo

He writes that a baby has been born to Matteo Falco and Francesca Crisci, and is to be called Pasquale. That single line is the oldest Falco proof there is.

7 Dec 1802
George Augustus Kolbe is born in London

In Soho. Two hundred years later the register was found, and it agrees to the day with a gravestone six thousand miles away in the Karoo.

3 Dec 1819
The Nautilus sails from Gravesendhe was 16

He was seventeen. Eleven months earlier he had married Margaret Downing by swearing they were both twenty-one. He was sixteen; she was fifteen.

14 Apr 1820
It lands at Algoa Bayhe was 17

He became one of the 1820 Settlers, preached across the Orange River, and named his Karoo farm “Wurtemburg” after where his own father's family came from in Germany.

1825
Antonio the stonecutter is born

House 19, Gračišće. He shaped hard rock with a hammer and a chisel, and so did his son after him.

1826
The 39th Regiment sails for New South Wales

Major George Pitt D’Arcy is aboard, guarding convicts. One of his children was born at Chatham in 1825 and the next at Parramatta in 1827 — so the crossing is pinned exactly.

1836
Three men are sent to chart Port Phillip Bay

One of them is Frederick Robert D’Arcy. The city of Melbourne stands on the ground they surveyed.

1 Dec 1844
Kolbe dies at his farm

The gravestone at Burgersdorp is still standing today, and still naming him and his wife.

4 May 1851
Willem Hermanus is born

Remembered for fifty years as the man shot by the British — when in fact he died of a stomach ulcer, in bed, with a doctor and his eldest son beside him. And his baptism page is the one that shows the family name already spelled with a z.

1857
Josip Papić is baptised at Senj

He grew up to be a trhonoša — one of the carriers who took packhorses over the Vratnik pass. Later he kept an inn on the same road.

1859
Tonka is born at Krivi Put, house 136house 136

Up on the Velebit road above the town. She came down off that road into Senj, and the family stayed.

1873
A railway bypasses Senj

The new line from Karlovac to Rijeka went somewhere else, and the port died. Everything the carriers used to bring over the mountain now travelled by train. Almost every job in that family afterwards is downstream of this one decision.

22 Feb 1882
Bob Lerena is born at Rosario

On the Paraná river in Argentina. He ended up with his own racing stables on the other side of the Atlantic, in Cape Town.

1892
Two Arenas marry at Scilla

Giuseppe Arena was born in 1892 and Anna Arena in 1893, in the same little town on the strait between Sicily and the mainland. Same surname, one year apart. Their son Rocco is the Rocco that RFM is named after.

1895
The Hotel Therapia opens at Crikvenica

The grandest building in the town, with sea-water baths and, within about ten years, an X-ray machine. Fifty-odd years later your great-grandma Hedviga sang in it. It is still standing — it has been called the Kvarner Palace since 2013.

1899–1902
The Anglo-Boer War

The family is living right inside it. Burgersdorp alone produced 1,048 Cape Rebels. One family wedding was held mid-war, in July 1901, in the house of a man called D. Schoeman — and a Commandant D. Schoeman led about 400 Cape Rebels one district away. It might be the same man. Nobody has proved it.

1901
Carmine Antonio Falco is born at Arienzo

He is the one who eventually moved the whole Falco family to the other side of the planet. He is buried in Brisbane.

1920
Milka marries Ljubomir Blaževićshe was 34

She was a widow of thirty-four who rolled cigars in the tobacco factory. Their daughter Hedviga was born six years later.

21 Apr 1925
A sixteen-year-old lands off the Palermo

Michele Mazza came out of Messina and stepped ashore at Brisbane. The family tree recorded eighteen crossings and not one ship’s name; somebody went to the Australian passenger index and found nine of them, including this one.

24 Dec 1940
A passport is stamped in Cape Town

The Argentine consulate issues Bob Lerena serie A no. 07962. Under “profession” it says one word: Trainer. His photograph and his signature are both still on it.

1945
Oto Blažević dies, aged twenty-twohe was 22

In the last year of the war. His name is on the wall grave at Senj with his parents.

1948
Ivan and Hedviga leave for Africa1948

The year the family remembers. Europe had just been wrecked by a war and other countries were offering Europeans somewhere safer to start again — and there is a second, quieter reason the family has always suspected and nobody wrote down. It took them three countries to stop moving: Botswana, then Zimbabwe, then South Africa.

1949
Two families meet in Johannesburg

Catherine Booyzen marries Nuno Lerena at St Joseph's, Mayfair. South Africa meets Argentina — the first of the joins that end in you.

4 Oct 1949
Sebastiano sails on the Toscana

Out of Genoa. By 1954 all four of the Italian great-grandparents on that side were in Queensland — born 1920 to 1928, in three towns that had nothing to do with each other.

1995 & 2001
Two deaths, six years to the day apart

Ivan Defranceski died at Senj on 30 October 1995. Hedviga died at Johannesburg on 30 October 2001 — the very same date, six years later.

2015
A wedding in Brisbane

On 19 December. Her twin sister married the other pair's dad too — and between the two weddings, ten families became one lot of cousins.

2025
A plane from Johannesburg lands at Brisbane

Ivan and CAL moved 11,635 km in a single night — the last journey in this entire website, and the only one the four of you were alive to see.

Meanwhile

What the rest of the world was doing

It is hard to feel how long ago 1750 is. Here is what had not been invented yet.

When Giovanni was born, about 1750

There were no photographs, no railways, no electric light and no anaesthetic — if you needed an operation, you were awake for it. Mozart had not been born.

When the Nautilus sailed, 1819

Napoleon was still alive, in prison on a tiny island in the middle of the Atlantic — not very far from the route the ship was taking. He died two years later.

A big number

How many grandparents have you got?

Everybody has two parents. So everybody has four grandparents, and eight great-grandparents. It doubles every single time you go up a step.

Parents 2
Grandparents 4
Great-grandparents 8
2× great 16
3× great 32
4× great 64
5× great 128
6× great 256
7× great 512
8× great 1,024

So think about Matteo Falco

He is your 8× great-grandpa, at the very top of the Falco ladder. That means there were 1,024 people in his generation who all had to exist, and every single one of them had to meet somebody, or you would not be here. Matteo is just the one whose name we know.